I feel like I need to post this because I've spent years feeling like a complete alien, and I wonder if anyone else has gone through this specific thing. My problem was never about desire. That's the part that's so hard to explain to people. I love my husband, I find him attractive, and my brain was...

I'm writing this because my specific problem with erectile dysfunction felt different from what I usually read about, and it was driving me crazy. For me, it wasn't a total shutdown. I’m 49, and the issue was the complete and total unpredictability of it all. One night, everything would be perfectly...

I’m 35 years old, and I need to share this because I know for a fact other guys my age go through this, and nobody wants to admit it. My erectile dysfunction wasn't something that came on slowly with age. I'm healthy, I go to the gym, everything should have been working fine. My problem started with...

I need to write about my experience because it’s a side of ED medication that I don't see people discussing very often. I've been dealing with erectile dysfunction for a while, and my doctor put me on sildenafil, the standard stuff. And let me be clear, it worked. On a purely mechanical level, it so...

I just wanted to share my experience here because it might be helpful for guys who are in the same situation I was. I'm 55, and I've been dealing with ED for about five years. I went to the doctor, got a prescription for sildenafil, the standard hard blue tablets, and I was just so relieved that the...

I’m putting this out there because for the longest time, I felt like I was the only person in the world with this specific, awful combination of problems. It’s hard enough to deal with one of these things, but having both at the same time is a special kind of psychological torture. For me, the prema...

I'm posting this because I'm sure there are other guys in the same boat, and it’s a topic no one ever wants to talk about. My issue with erectile dysfunction started a few years ago, right around my 50th birthday. It wasn't like a switch just flipped off; it was a slow fade. At first, I'd just lose ...

I'm writing this post because I honestly feel like I've been going through this alone for the past few years, and I figure there has to be someone else out there who gets it. My issue was really hard to explain, even to my husband. It wasn't about desire. I love him, I'm attracted to him, and in my ...